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Energy Psychology Tips For Romance In Healthy Aging
September 5th, 2010 | Author: admin
Romance is widely understood as the vital connection with the “special someone” who is or will become your life partner. The laws of attraction operate in a most tangible way when it comes to romance.
If you are grumpy, unhappy, or very needy you are likely to attract those very qualities another person. This is true whether you are just meeting someone new or you have been with a partner for many years.
To find the “right person” in someone else, find ways of being the best person you can possibly be. If you want to maintain a long-term romantic relationship with your lifelong partner, be as creative as possible in your daily life by examining each interaction with the person for its gifts and challenges.
Bringing your wisdom and humor into the second half of life is a vital ally for enhancing your romantic relationship.
Here are a few practical tips from the new field of energy psychology for maintaining your emotional balance and keeping the charge of vitality and romance alive in your most significant relationship.
1. Learn from each interaction. After any interaction with the person you consider most significant ask yourself, “What happened just now? How could it have been better? What can I learn here?”
2. Be honest with yourself. Instead of prevaricating about why something went wrong, simply acknowledge harmony did not prevail in that moment rather than blaming the other person or feeling hurt.
3. Treat yourself by acknowledging your limitations in an interaction, “Even though ______ happened /or I wish I had not said_______, I deeply and profoundly accept myself and am learning to enhance my relationship skills.”
4. Release negative emotions quickly by tapping the sides of the hands together while making your releasing statement, ” I now let go of my guilt/heaviness/ anger/disappointment.”
5. Rebalance yourself. Emphatic downward movements over the whole body help stagnant energy to release more fully. Feel your center while holding the hands gently over the heart to comfort and affirm yourself.
6. Apologize and forgive readily. You can certainly own your part in the conflicting situation.
7. Make a peace offering. It might be a smile, a joke, a gesture, a sharing of food, a sentence about an unrelated but safe topic.
8. Allow time for the significant person in your life to respond. Remember, the other person may process emotions at a different tempo.
9. Celebrate reunion with touch. Remember there are many ways to connect intimately without engaging sexually. Share with each other how you can do things differently in the future. Staying engaged in a romantic relationships requires daily commitment and frequent “tune ups.” Nothing happens automatically. With practice, though, you can learn to follow your intuition about the best timing for sensitive issues and steadily learn what works best for both of you.
Choosing to keep romance alive in our hearts is a great adventure and joy in healthy aging!
For more helpful ideas about maintaining relationship health and vitality visit Dr. Dorothea’s website or purchase her most recent book, Second Chance at Your Dream (2009, Energy Psychology Press). www.secondchancedream.com
Go to the festival with my dad
March 5th, 2010 | Author: admin
Father is very important in our lives after our mother. You would never think about the services of a father is not for the services of a mother. Because the father did not give birth and breastfeeding, while the mother did everything for us. Therefore, many children are closer to his mother than his father. Examples like myself, I did not have a relationship with my dad, and I often share stories with the mother only, because the father very busy working outside the home. If the mother is always there for me whenever I want. However, during holidays, my father took me to go to an event T in the Park festival in 2010. the show good, a festival featuring a variety of art events which followed by teens and parents. A lot of people who attended the festival. My dad and I bought two tickets. Robbie Williams tickets 2010 and Robbie Williams Tickets. My dad once saying to me. At the time saw the music festival, my father bought me food and drink that much so I do not hunger and thirst. And the most important so I do not feel bored watching the festival. It turned out that my view of my father, very wrong. And actually my father’s love as big as the love given by my mother to me. I loved my father and mother.
Find a Dream Interpretation – Find the Meaning Behind Dreams
February 21st, 2010 | Author: admin
Learning what your Dreams mean through Dream Interpretation can be a great way to find out what is going on in your subconscious mind. Many times your dreams are about any conflict that you are having in your life. There may be a relationship that you are having trouble with and this dream is giving you an outlet to work it out in your mind. Many people find that there dreams are closely related to issues that they have in the past as well that have not been resolved.
Learn How To Get : Dream Interpretations
It is important that when you are trying to find meaning to your dreams that you get help from a place that is experienced in Dream Interpretations. It is a good idea that you keep track of the dreams that you have and make a journal so that you can refer back to them when you are trying to work out those issues. Many times we will have a dream then later we will forget the details of the dream.
Learn How To Have : Dream Meaning
There are many solutions that are available to you that you can try to help get rid of some of the negative energy that is being caused by the dreams. You should look at a place that has the meaning for dreams and look up the remedy because this can greatly help you to have a more restful night of sleep.
After you have spent some time reading and understanding what your dreams mean this will give you insight into your self and you will have a better idea of how the mind works.